Also I Have Really Fucking Long Hair
Okay But How Do I Learn To Accept My Body?
Part of the reason I wear it this long is my abusive ex made me keep it short, so it’s my way of reclaiming my body.
Like I feel like I need instructions on how to get over my weird self loathing?
I think part of my issue is that I know what happens if you don’t fit a narrow mold of socially acceptable “beauty” and so it’s less hating my body and more fear of what society will do to me if I slip outside of the standard.
How do I stop being afraid of that punishment? Because I know it’s there, I’m constantly reminded of how society treats women that don’t fit the standard.
baby-duppy asked: you are going to be the best parent :)
I like to think I’ll be pretty good
one thing i hate is when parents refuse to let their kid(s) dye their hair
who’s fucking hair is it??????? is iT THE FAMILY HAIR?????????
How to teach your child that they don’t own their body.
Same goes for cutting/NOT cutting a kid’s hair counter to their desires.
Think about what this teaches your kid about consent when you do this.
I’m sure some people think this is trivial but it’s really, really not. You need to be teaching your child that their body is THEIRS.
My kids can do whatever the fuck they like with their hair (except get lice, because that shit is contagious).
Also they have to choose between light colored pillow cases and manic panic cause I am not trying to get the stains out.
Also if they want to shave their head they have to wear sunscreen or a hat because my family’s prone to skin cancer.
And probably no Koolaid, it’s just never ends well, so I’ll just get the colour they want from Saly’s
also hair brushing is probably something I’m going to insist on unless they want Robert Smith hair in which case, go nuts.
I Am SO SO SO SO SO Glad I Was Partnered And Married Before Tindr Became A Thing
Cause I mean christ, it sounds worse than OkCupid in terms of asshattery from dudes.
Also LOL bitcoin failed
God I love it when things libertarians try don’t work.
It just makes me feel so smug.
Far left cupcakes #anarchist #communist #cupcakes they’re red velvet, yes I am incredibly clever. They were supposed to be for my IWW meeting but I was too tired to make them then. All I can say is I am bad at controlling my icing